As humans, we are constantly bombarded by lessons of "don't lie." Easy peasy, right? Not so much!
Neurotypicals take for granted that we naturally learn the many nuances of honesty. As we mature, we learn unspoken rules that help us gauge when lying is socially appropriate.
A friend excitedly walks over to show you her new shoes. The first thing that pops into your mind is, "those are better suited for Lady Gaga," but before the words slip off your tongue, within a split-second, you have already activated your "social filter." "Nice new shoes" you manage to say. Or, if they are really outrageous, maybe you muster, "interesting new kicks."
